Meredith Cary, PsyD https://drcary.onair.cc Clinical Health Psychologist, Practicing in 40 States Thu, 26 Mar 2026 14:53:13 +0000 en-US hourly 1 Brief & Effective Therapies I Offer https://drcary.onair.cc/2023/11/01/brief-effective-therapies-i-offer/ Wed, 01 Nov 2023 16:00:45 +0000 http://drcary.onair.cc/?p=935

For 25 years, I’ve provided brief & time-limited, goal-directed & structured psychotherapies (with individual adults) that are scientifically proven to work.  The following are short descriptions of these therapies.

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Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT)

Brief & Effective Therapies

Cognitive Behavior Therapy is a brief, time-limited, structured form of therapy that aims to teach you to become your own therapist and best self-manager. It’s the most extensively studied psychotherapy and has been found to be effective for the areas in this word cloud … and an even longer list of conditions.

Most of my posts about it can be found on the Cognitive Behavior Therapy page.

Also, I hope to engage the community for CBT to share their knowledge on the CBT Hub, which I help to curate.

 

Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT)

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ACT is a newer variation of a Cognitive Behavior Therapy that has been proven to be effective for many issues.  People learn to stop struggling with their ‘undesirable’ thoughts and feelings in order to move toward what’s most important to them – based on their core values (which we clarify).

I like to offer both CBT and ACT to my patients – to let them decide which approach seems to resonate best with them. We can do either one, according to their preferences.

Learn more about ACT on the Acceptance Therapy page.

Motivational Therapy (MI)

Motivational TherapyHow ready are you to change?  Motivational Therapy, a well-studied effective therapy that began in the area of substance abuse, helps people learn how to raise their feelings of being “ready … willing … & … able” to tackle things they may be avoiding for any number of reasons.

The combination of MI + CBT helps people overcome procrastination and to start new lifestyle habits or stop unwanted ones (like starting exercise or stopping smoking).

My posts about it can be found on the Motivational Therapy page, including information about the ‘Growth’ v. ‘Fixed’ Mindset.

 

Mindfulness-based Therapy

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Mindfulness is a type of non-religious meditation that is a learnable skill. It’s proven to have many positive outcomes as a stand-alone therapy. I use it in conjunction with other therapies (like CBT or ACT) to augment and strengthen the process of change.

My posts about it can be found on the Mindfulness Therapy Page

 

Positive Therapy

 

Learning Resilience SkillsMost people want to be happy or have well-being, not just be less anxious or depressed. I augment CBT with ‘Positive Psychology’ strategies, which focuses on optimizing ‘what goes well with you’ in the context of your strengths (which we assess).

We use exercises that are proven to increase hope/optimism, gratitude, loving kindness, ‘flow’ experiences, and meaning.

For more, go to the Positive Therapy page.

 

Practice Location

About Dr. Cary 1My practice WAS located in Washington DC … walkable from Dupont Circle and Logan Circle … walkable from the Red Dupont Metro station and the Orange/Blue Faragut West station.

I am now solely offering telehealth to people who are in any of these 40 states.

To schedule Friday & Saturday appointments, please contact me at DrCary@mac.com.

 

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3 Insomnia Myths https://drcary.onair.cc/2022/08/24/3-insomnia-myths/ Wed, 24 Aug 2022 12:18:57 +0000 https://drcary.onair.cc/?p=1587

In over 30 years of conducting CBT, I’ve most often heard these 3 myths from people struggling with insomnia. Many don’t realize that these myths can actually keep people STUCK in insomnia. The good news is that when people see that they are truly just myths, they start to get better – even after many many years of insomnia!

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My Twitter https://drcary.onair.cc/2021/12/30/my-twitter/ Thu, 30 Dec 2021 14:45:49 +0000 https://drcary.onair.cc/?p=1851

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My TeleHealth Practice https://drcary.onair.cc/2021/11/08/my-telehealth-practice/ Tue, 09 Nov 2021 00:24:54 +0000 http://hubtemplate.onair.cc/?p=109

I am a Clinical Health Psychologist using telehealth with people located in the 40 or so Psypact States.
To schedule an appointment or for more about my telehealth visits, please go here.

For over 35 years, my specialty areas have included: anxiety, depression, insomnia, and chronic pain. I only use proven treatments, such as Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), Mindfulness-based therapy, Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT), as well as science-based Positive and Motivational therapies.

These therapies are brief, time-limited, goal-oriented. They teach people to become their own therapist quickly. I send you a lot of visuals to remind you what we cover in sessions. As well, I recommend the use of many free online resources.

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My Specialties https://drcary.onair.cc/2021/11/07/my-specialties/ Sun, 07 Nov 2021 15:48:25 +0000 http://drcary.onair.cc/?p=930

Welcome to my practice!  I work with adults in individual Cognitive Behavior Therapy to help alleviate symptoms of anxiety, depression, pain and insomnia as well as to increase positive health and well-being.

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Introduction

As part of working together, you will learn more about the condition or goal you are interested in. Here, I briefly describe the areas in which I specialize, with links to more of my posts. If you’re interested in the types of psychotherapies I provide, go to Brief & Effective Therapies I use.

Anxiety

My Areas of Specialty 1Anxiety is a normal, common emotion. We all experience being scared of situations (like before surgery), worried about health, finances, or about what others think of us. Anxiety can even protect us from harm or motivate us to act.

However, 1 in 10 Americans suffer from too much anxiety. When it disrupts our quality of life or causes excessive physical or mental symptoms, it’s considered a disorder. The good news is that anxiety disorders can be treated with brief, structured, and effective methods.

Panic, Phobias, Generalized Anxiety, Worry 

Cognitive behavioral therapies (CBT) for most anxiety disorders usually employs 4 steps:

Education about anxiety helps you understand responses and teaches you more effective coping patterns.
Self-management skills for your body help you to relax, which can reduce physical symptoms.
Self-management skills for your mind help you to focus on alternative thinking styles.
Step-by-step behaviors to gradually expose you to fears, which enable you to regain more function.

For more on anxiety, check out:  CBT for Anxiety … CBT changes your brain … Mindfulness works!

 

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)

IOCDF 2018: The BEST conference ... EVERWhen your unwanted thoughts occur repeatedly, you feel unable to stop them, or you feel the ONLY way to stop them is to repeat doing something excessively – to the point of distressing interference in a part of your life, it may be OCD.

The best proven treatment for OCD is a variation of Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT). It’s known as Exposure & Response Prevention (ERP), which I use primarily. I also tend to augment ERP with Acceptance & Commitment Therapy, another variation of CBT.

For more on OCD, check out:  Successes with OCD  … take a look at brain scans in CBT changes your brain … and the Community of IOCD

 

Depression

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As with all other mental conditions, Depression is a brain disorder. Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) actually has been shown to change brain chemistry.

The first studies to prove how effective Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) was – done in the 1980’s – were conducted with people who were clinically Depressed.

Some people recover from Depression with CBT alone, without use of meds. Some prefer to use both CBT and medication. Either way, if you think you feel depressed, it’s treatable.

Check out more about CBT for Depression:  CBT for DepressionCBT changes your brain

 

Stress Management

 

Auto Draft 2Daily stress is unavoidable. What’s most important is how we manage it … so that it doesn’t manage us!  CBT offers the best skills training in how to manage your stressful thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.

In a few short stress management sessions, you will learn how to calm your body and mind to regain the control you need to live your best life. You will learn resilience skills and how to prevent falling back into old habits.

For more on Stress Management, check out:  Learning to Manage Stress …  The Best on Stress Management … and more posts here.

Insomnia/Sleep

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It’s estimated that 1 out of 3 in the U.S. struggle with insomnia. Unfortunately, though the medical guidelines clearly state that the first line treatment is a behavioral one (CBT), too many still prescribe sleeping pills first (which don’t fix the problem).

As the behavioral sleep specialist for the Georgetown Sleep Disorders Center for more than 20 years, I’ve worked with so many – who not only have insomnia – but who are also hooked on sleeping pills. As well, many struggle with anxiety or depression … just because they haven’t been able to get a good night sleep in years!

For more on Insomnia or Sleep, check out:  CBT-I for InsomniaWhy I can’t sleep … and more posts here.

 

Chronic Pain

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Chronic pain affects nearly 100 million Americans and over 20 million experience it daily – with enormous distress and disability.  A great deal has been learned recently about chronic pain and how to treat it – including how much your distress can actually add to the pain.

If you have any kind of chronic pain, you owe it to yourself to watch this set of 15-minute videos which highlights the entire Stanford University Pain Management faculty discussing the various ways they both understand and treat chronic pain (including use of Cognitive Behavior Therapy for pain).

 

Fibromyalgia (FM)

FibromyalgiaFM is a chronic pain condition that increasingly is showing evidence of having a ‘brain signature’ in scans (not available for patients – yet). FM is difficult to live with, especially because it can include so many different symptoms that impact so many aspects of life.

I’ve worked with 100’s of people with FM in clinical research and in my practice, using CBT. Watch an excellent video, by a world leading Rheumatologist (and my former boss at the Chronic Pain & Fatigure Research Center), that explains FM and all the best practices for its treatment.

 

Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS)

Fibromyalgia & IBSIBS is a functional problem with the gut – meaning even though there is no tissue damage, the gut doesn’t work well. IBS can cause serious distress. People with it may tend to fall into a pattern of avoiding events and other activities that limits their quality of life.

CBT is a proven treatment for taking back the parts of your life that may get lost due to common pitfalls of IBS. U Penn Professor Hunt peels back the curtain and shows what Cognitive Behavior Therapy for IBS actually looks like in her video … in this post on IBS.

 

Optimism, Growth, & Well-Being

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Optimism may not come naturally to you. However, it is a ‘thinking style’ that can be learned and deployed at will. It’s proven to be related to better physical & mental health, longer life, and better performance.

Having a Growth Mindset may not come naturally to you. It too can be learned and deployed. As well, it’s proven to have significant life benefits.

If you’d like to cultivate having Well-Being, I’ve studied with the founder of the field of Positive Psychology and can share with you the proven strategies he and others have found to be associated with having a life well-lived.  For more details, see Positive Therapy.

Practice Location

About Dr. Cary 1My practice is entirely using TeleHealth.

To schedule Friday & Saturday appointments, please contact me at DrCary@mac.com.

 

 

 

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CBT Works! https://drcary.onair.cc/2021/11/05/cbt-works/ Sat, 06 Nov 2021 01:30:57 +0000 http://drcary2.onair.cc/?p=259

CBT works to change our thoughts and behaviors, which in turn help to change our moods. Although it began with Depression, literally  100’s of clinical trials have shown VERY strong evidence for CBT as a highly effective treatment for the below-listed issues.

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CBT-I for Insomnia https://drcary.onair.cc/2021/11/04/cbt-i-for-insomnia/ Thu, 04 Nov 2021 21:20:41 +0000 http://drcary2.onair.cc/?p=248

Ads say, “Ask your doctor” for a pill. But, in fact, sleep specialists say that Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I) is the FIRST step to take … before any kind of medication.

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Success with Insomnia https://drcary.onair.cc/2021/11/04/success-with-insomnia/ Thu, 04 Nov 2021 19:26:11 +0000 http://drcary2.onair.cc/?p=595

Inadequate sleep is a national epidemic, according to the CDC. Tens of millions suffer with insomnia … despite tens of millions of prescriptions written for sleeping pills.

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Mindfulness Works! https://drcary.onair.cc/2021/11/03/mindfulness-works/ Wed, 03 Nov 2021 19:53:46 +0000 http://drcary2.onair.cc/?p=371

Learning to be ‘mindful’ is a key skill that is associated with:

  1. Reduced Stress
  2. Improved Sleep
  3. Improved Pain Management
  4. Decreased Anxiety
  5. Enhanced Ability to Focus
  6. Lowered Blood Pressure
  7. Better Immune Function
  8. Less Depression Symptoms
  9. Increased Self-Awareness
  10. Improved Emotional Regulation

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Know your Strengths https://drcary.onair.cc/2021/11/02/know-your-strengths/ Tue, 02 Nov 2021 19:50:35 +0000 http://drcary2.onair.cc/?p=419

Knowing and cultivating your character strengths as well as the strengths of others is a key to increasing happiness and meaning in your life.  There are several good free questionnaires to determine what your top strengths are.

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